Lily Meyer | Longreads | March 2019 | 9 minutes (2,302 words)
Nathan Englander has been writing fiction about Jews in America for nearly as long as I've been a Jew in America. I stole my mother's copy of his debut collection, For the Relief of Unbearable Urges, as a nine-year-old, and was both enthralled and baffled by his stories of Orthodox identity and longing.
Since then, Englander has written a play, another story collection, and three novels, the most recent of which, kaddish.com, opens with a secular Jew named Larry who refuses to say daily Kaddish for his dead father. Saying Kaddish is, according to Jewish law, the eldest son's duty, but Larry can't bring himself to return to the synagogue he has left behind. Instead, he finds a solution on the then-new Internet: he'll pay a rabbinical student in Jerusalem to take on his filial duty. Years later, Larry returns to Orthodox Judaism, reinventing himself as a yeshiva teacher named Reb Shuli. He's happily married, and comfortable in his reclaimed community. The sole stain on his Jewish life is his failure to say Kaddish for his father. His guilt swells into an obsession, and soon, he's off to Israel to track down the proprietor of kaddish.com and get back the birthright he e-signed away.
Englander tells Shuli's story in the language Shuli knows best: The Yiddish-inflected, Hebrew-sprinkled English of religious American Jews. He writes with humor, pathos, and irrepressible life. I thought often of Grace Paley as I read kaddish.com, and of the Coen brothers' movie A Serious Man, which, as it turns out, Englander loves. We spoke on the phone about the Coen brothers, Philip Roth's secular funeral, and other questions of Jewish-American identity. Like my nine-year-old self, I was enthralled. Read more of this post
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